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Mar. 16th, 2019 12:43 amIM BACK
I was gone for a long-ish time from DW because it generally takes up more mindspace to use than, say, tumblr or discord and I was in Exam Hell (technically still am but it's in a downswing at the moment)
But I HAVE been doing things, and I don't have the energy to do MORE things just for dreamwidth but I can link to what I have been doing.
— I began a new blog,![[tumblr.com profile]](https://www.tumblr.com/favicon.ico)
arosexuality, to explore my own relationship to aromanticism and allosexuality. half-resource, half personal journal, as so many blogs are.
— Over on radiqueer, meanwhile, I began talking about futch as the nonbinary equivalent to butch/femme dynamics, was accused of colonizing lesbian history, and generally I've been having a heck of a time over it.
— I ficced! I wrote almost 5k of trans guy Andrew Minyard topping his hapless cis boyfriend and I am so proud of this fic.
— I wrote a long post about interacting with minors
— I wrote about my problems with emotional labor theory but I'm not happy with what I came up with and I want to talk about it but I don't know how. I'm thinking about this hard in the context of having picked up ~yet another~ suicidal friend (I have a knack, this is the third one in 4 years) and how exhausting everything has been lately partly due to that and partly because ( ranty hurt feelings under the cut ). Anyway. I don't even want to DM someone to talk about this because I feel bad about demanding emotional labor from people (I broke down on a friend over discord because I felt so helpless about reaching out to any of my other friends) and it's just. Ugh. Messy.
I was gone for a long-ish time from DW because it generally takes up more mindspace to use than, say, tumblr or discord and I was in Exam Hell (technically still am but it's in a downswing at the moment)
But I HAVE been doing things, and I don't have the energy to do MORE things just for dreamwidth but I can link to what I have been doing.
— I began a new blog,
— Over on radiqueer, meanwhile, I began talking about futch as the nonbinary equivalent to butch/femme dynamics, was accused of colonizing lesbian history, and generally I've been having a heck of a time over it.
— I ficced! I wrote almost 5k of trans guy Andrew Minyard topping his hapless cis boyfriend and I am so proud of this fic.
— I wrote a long post about interacting with minors
— I wrote about my problems with emotional labor theory but I'm not happy with what I came up with and I want to talk about it but I don't know how. I'm thinking about this hard in the context of having picked up ~yet another~ suicidal friend (I have a knack, this is the third one in 4 years) and how exhausting everything has been lately partly due to that and partly because ( ranty hurt feelings under the cut ). Anyway. I don't even want to DM someone to talk about this because I feel bad about demanding emotional labor from people (I broke down on a friend over discord because I felt so helpless about reaching out to any of my other friends) and it's just. Ugh. Messy.
