annoyance

today in posts that fucking hurt my brain;

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the post in question

ha. okay. lets take this from the top;

1. there's nothing wrong with straight women wanting soft men, because hello! straight women don't exactly have stellar history with violence at the hands of men. let straight women want dumb boys. straight women generally aren't going to be attracted to butches unless there's some mistaken identity shit going on. we clear? good

2. many lesbians want roughness and that's not bad. lesbians wanting to reclaim their sexuality via kink and dominance is not bad, and acting like it is is pretty fucking weird actually imho. why are we shaming women for their sexual fantasies didn't we leave this behind. what is this, the dark ages?

3. this entire post is directed specifically at bi and pan women. straight women don't want to date/fuck butches and lesbians don't want to date/fuck men. bi and pan women do. and because not only do bi/pan women have trauma surrounding men, but like. if they want to have sexual fantasies about men that involve men being soft and fantasies about butches where the butches are aggressive that is no else's fucking business but theirs.

4. the post frames dominance as something ugly and bad and wrong right from the start and I have to say I really don't fucking like that.

5. if you want to complain about people sexually harassing butches complain about THAT, not a million tangential things that detract from your og point