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please comment!!! should I fuck around and change all my urls to intimatopia including here? is this a good decision or is it the adhd gremlin talking? am I going to regret this?
pros: better url
cons: my email still says nerdflighter and the difference will drive me crazy inside a week

it is in your self interest to be very tender

( part one: thoughts on tenderness: the comment version )

( part two: rambling. cw incoherency )